Be nice to everyone

Assalamualaikum,
Someone told me something important that I think might change the way I think as a person.  InsyaAllah I will try my best to do this. I had some problems recently and I was a bit clueless and confused if what I did to solve the problem was right.  Well you know what I did.
I push people away.  Yes. I have always done that everytime I had a fight or personal problems. I do that a lot.  And well I thought it was okay.  But... I was wrong.  My friend told me that I didn't know if when I pushed them away they might be hurt. And at first I was like, well let them get hurt.  I mean they did to me.  So you see the thing is when you fight fire with fire, all you get is just a bigger fire. And you see I heard this saying before and I thought I would never do that.  Because it just makes things worst.  Plus, when I did that I didn't really care if our "bond" (silaturrahim) was gonna crash and burn because I was only thinking of my happiness. I was selfish to do that.  She said that,  just because we want our happiness doesn't mean we have to hurt others.  Do good to others eventho they did bad to us.  So thats what im gonna do if I have another problem like this.  Well im gonna go apologize to my friend. Seeya!

A lil reminder

Assalamualaikum
So today I came upon a malaysian islamic photography account on instagram (of course :p) and I wanted to share with you one of the pictures I saw. It had a beautiful story behind it and it sort of touched me. And I felt like I just had to tell you guys about it! It went like this...

We are like plates
Imagine you gave three plates to three individuals to borrow. It might be ur friend, family or anyone really.

So the first individual brought you back ur plate and it was in a good condition. Nice and clean, not a single impurity. So you just put it back on the shelf like u always did.

Then, the second individual gave ur plate back but it was used and dirty. The second individual did not clean the plate after he/she has used it. So you put the plate by the sink to wash until it becomes sparkling clean. Then after you washed it, you put it back on the shelf.

Meanwhile, the third individual has brought back the plate into broken pieces. It was so bad that u could'nt even see the shape of the plate. It had no more value. So in the end, u have no choice but to throw it away in the bin.

So you see, its the same as our relationship with God. If we come back to him in a good condition, then He will put us back where we belong, a place for the good. Paradise.

And if we come back to him with sins, then He will have to "wash" our sins in hell before we could go to our original position, paradise.

But if we come back in the worst condition. Where you have to much sins and your faith in God cannot be seen. Then God will have no choice but to put us in hell forever and ever, just like the plate which no longer has value.

I hope this will help to remind us to do good and avoid the bad in our lives for today and other days to come.May god bless us and may we all be placed in Jannah one day. Amin :)

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